Monday, December 20, 2010

Single family why they were shut outside the gate in the marriage

 Yung comics in his classic do not get married? After the sea, or to have to pick and not pick favorite people - but your state is a single label, according to popular words: you may be left out.
is not only the rest of them, but pick the rest, but the rest of his pick their own. saying goes , is still a married woman age you worry about?
a woman who left have said this to us, in fact, think carefully, can be calculated in proportion to the person should not have many friends, which friends have to be heterosexual , the probability is one half, to age, character, education, and so the probability of matching all aspects and small a lot, so the math, the probability is very small chance of winning, of course, if you encounter, and that is one hundred percent.
those unfortunate women caught in a single vortex, in fact, no physical defects or mental retardation, on the contrary, most of them beautiful, talented, economic independence, and some even are fine woman. and being held in the big outside of marriage Why did it have they?
what economists have had an explanation, said that reason is that the threshold of their entry into the opportunity cost too much love. modern society, a good woman has a good career jobs, economy independent, not dependent on men, if you choose to give up too many things marriage, or input costs too much, she would not want to. society offers opportunities for women's work and development of more single women's groups will be. But God is that mean you can not account for the benefit of the whole. single women, the stronger sense of professionalism, the more hope there is good feeling to get compensation, but in the case of high expectations, marriage has become more difficult.
In addition, the evolution of the concept of life, family values gave them a relaxed environment, to be in the past, especially the women, nearly 30 years of age are not married, people will certainly have her views, but now is the era of free and open, unmarried women much less social pressure, and even marriage reduced to only one of the options in life.
, of course, in the strict sense of the single (not married life) phenomenon is very rare, and more are postponing their marriage. late marriage because there are some other factors: First, a long time to education, from primary school to PhD, to stay in school a full 20 years, many opportunities are missed. Second, the impact of opening up, a major purpose of marriage to solve the problem, not married sex life is also very easy to obtain, many people will not busy getting married. Third, changes in social conditions, changing the relative costs and benefits of marriage, such as rising housing prices lead to rise in the cost of marriage, forced Delay in marriage.
our investigation we have an outstanding experience: that education is very high, appearance and taste, lucrative men left women who left, at least one half of the ideal partner for the absence of sighing, do nothing, and no to become happy and marry at random.
Accordingly, a woman left, said: We are the circle, which too many people living state, their own intelligence, set up their own life, an economic growth beneficiaries, but expect more and faster with increased anxiety. in the areas of private life, their desire to get more emotional satisfaction, but they often can not afford the emotional desire to bring the crisis. Therefore, they are contradictory is confusing.
foreign media in a 26-year-old company Xian Fang is the only child at home. The vivacity of the girl spoke very vividly: Students still had a good one, because it is the equality of the sexes. from small to large, and the boys did not feel any different, equally enjoy the affection of their parents, the same good living, the same good education, and lived a carefree youth . After graduation, get a fairly good job, do not make progress would not lag behind, although the life of constantly repeated, sometimes boring but full of joy, but suddenly found out so and so who talk about her boyfriend, who married so and so , so and so who have children, and so and so who call that night with dinner to introduce boys to you. reunions are not the first and second year graduate talk about beer and skittles, as if one had the other half are mysteriously Even if a person is also known as just romance. The most terrible is that parents start to take your love affair as a top national policy around to beg someone to give you a blind date activities.
,UGG bailey button, all do not believe it: you do not have boyfriend! When you honest eyes shining in the light of the confirmation again, the one hundred percent a hundred percent of people will say the same words: 'You're asking for too much, right?' do 'I No boyfriend is entirely my responsibility? 'So 25 years is over, many girls can not help but fear, thought to himself: to begin to change from Lao Leba! self-confidence, such as early winter leaves, a piece down by the wind go.
their beauty and cosmetic surgery more and more advanced, women's youth line also becomes longer, women can be regarded as fully 'thirty-one flowers'! 25 years old with no boyfriend do not be surprised. , she thought that marriage is a way of life, you can choose, or you can not choose. Fang Xian said she appreciated the man is this: open-minded, humorous, not petty. old, and I know they wish to see me get married. But the pressure is put their head on their own over that hurdle, others do not care. about the future, because too many variables, not thought. Social Security plus to buy their own commercial insurance, should be able to deal with it? Anyway, now is the 'moon race', since do not know how to. still no Jiadiao, she had a question: As a woman, what is the most important goal in life? is married? marriage is the ultimate goal? think much more experienced, the woman she has so Beijing feel free to Jin Hun an heartless: is 'divorced without baby'. it is I do not want to see. value grows, and the unmarried Mary age-matched men, have not join the discernment of her. In particular, easy to get along, not alone their temper strange, in fact, who did not temper is it? home has room, but the woman, because of constraints of the social environment, in the ubiquitous influence, control your temper. industry, women did not have a bachelor house, do not owe the situation does not owe debt, why should control? that did not think of myself as old stuff, you want to get sold the Peizhao Xiao.
are countless possibilities. Jiabu Diao does not matter, I thought, me and my kind, let the man who married us worry go vain. . and to my surprise, in her eyes, the child is the most important, but do not have to have a husband.
a handsome babies, do not have too much trouble. Of course, even if the child does not take into account factors that I still want to get married, and could not find the right case? it has no single. fewer and fewer good men, not me, not normal , but the man is too unusual. Some of the show has become practical. This year she began to place more emphasis on making money. said that a year old and their parents, they are most worry about this thing, or their marriage. , the thought of that time I was scared of the Cold War, or forget it. Marriage requires too much sacrifice, you have to invest a lot of things in each other's body, in addition to money, there are other energy, time and personal preferences, etc., so sometimes think about it, can not change also do not change it, at least for now, there is not a big change in force giving me the urge. reality, women mostly age of marriage has been postponed. But you think, is not there a Kaner, Kaner on the age? said a woman, she can live to 70 years old, the middle she married twice, each time the years, her total number of years married 20 years. If we subtract 18 years of growth, 70 minus 20 minus 18, we can see her at least 32 years are single. So, I think single women do not have a age limit, but just to say you are in this state. Of course, I say this not to encourage everyone to the single. If you have a good opportunity, must go to grasp, for example, before the age of 30 you better put your married, or you the best in the appropriate age to have children. This could be your life More colors. but not sure if these two areas is good, it should not worry, I think as long as a woman caring, elegant, rich in heart, even 80 years old she will graciously, or someone will love her or have friends like her. personal relations are very delicate, honey, when in the oil, not much, but is often in an indescribable state of cold war, often I do not know for whatever reason, he would not talk to me, silent. to think is incredible, first because he felt like he was deep, a lot of flavor, and finally break up the same as deep, too deep, very deep, very frightening. and this does not speak of the state can continue throughout the week or even more years. That year his parents in Guangzhou, the New Year, I went to his house, do not say a few words, he began to ignore me cold with a face. I do not know exactly where I have sinned against him or What is wrong, and my heart especially aggrieved, it is the Chinese New Year, ah, hey why should people face to see it?
the degree of violence or anti-domestic violence is even higher than, it breaks the human heart, and heart is the softest most delicate places, untouchable, touch, on the break. she eventually broke up, even in the most desire to get married, but I actually have the feeling of relief, I feel like for me to break out of a heavy yoke, which has had me choking collar, and now I can finally breathe free.
With such a feeling, experience, small abalone mixed feelings. she said, women 25 to 28 years old when the most eager to get married, after this short a period to. the future of a better life, love life when I just felt too short, forever kind of thing really easy for us. But more than a thousand days is over, the original not the case, the weakest relationship is a part of male-female relationships. They pub in the Banv, the train encounters the woman bubble, bubble ... ... just do not soak both beauty and wisdom of these women, this is our time of sorrow, is a social tragedy. small abalone man now three new analytical basic principles: do not take the initiative - of them are not brave, fear of failure fear of combat; not refuse - the original nature of the case, how can he do right at your fingertips; not undertake - is not responsible, determined not to fall into any the hands of a woman. Sakura is also a strong woman pure and simple. what to do. After college I spent two years in the state-owned enterprises, opened in Chongqing after his own company, very impressive to do a few years, and then again back to Beijing, in Peking University Education EMBA. this stage I was particularly affected at home and comfortable life with new challenges in Beijing in front of me, personality dictates, I decided to come out.
her boyfriend, the company came out and it means giving up everything. reality and reason, emotion and affection, all too showdown overnight. boyfriend I do not want to leave home, but also do not understand my choice, proposed by the breakup of his Frankly speaking, although the two of us have some personality differences, but these years, our feelings are very good, others saw a pair of well-being, such a result is very cruel, I did not want to use such a cruel way to success the pursuit of their own, but reason tells me there is no other way can be selected. utilities and feelings, I chose the former, before and after, I do not regret my choice.
SMS: No matter who I chose, in my heart forever love you. Looking back today, when his first date with him simply said: You are a unique woman. maybe the best in me or him, who can not have their own pursuit of life, regardless of the outcome, I have to struggle to achieve. so I need a wider stage. , is a woman with numerous lessons learned or failure ultimately, feelings of both sides to give, not what you will be able to resolve emotional.
, of course, a lot of pressure recently Ying Shen. For around some of their own, she was do not think that constitutes much of their influence, but my heart is sad. indignant she said one of the words: compassion? , you are not satisfied with the happiness she has done, this is not a material issue, this is destiny. ; you can only your own lonely lonely, beautiful your beautiful. Jiao Lin sisters certainly do not fall in love, if in case of love, but sorrow. Cinderella's dream pregnant, I thought I could rely on to marry a rich man to change the destiny. I can not accept is the way most think. I remember one writer has discussed the idea over. In fact, the rich and generous people, has always been the two concepts. man's money is also earned a dime, you think he would very much love to give you openly? Why? Besides, you is not no place position. Unless you have to match her mother's capital, otherwise too poor economic status, your marriage in the end is a happy beginning or the beginning of unhappiness is hard to say. may God be fair, it is impossible for both the happy and beautiful women. > Shen Ying eloquent, it is the existence of a conversation in the men's British Gas. I asked Chen Ying: The big woman. from the menu next week, to vacation trips, large and small I was in charge, do not ask. Do you think he is a big girl do? big woman, not trying to be a woman. On the contrary, from the heart, I especially want to do everything a big man to take care of the little woman. but, alas, a small woman is to be blessed ah, I am waiting to no avail, until the dropping water the point where there is no wait, I can only say that lives bitter, but to do everything on their own, a big woman. femininity. The objects we interviewed, most of them are very likable female character. they lovely, nature of work and even their social circle is wider than the average woman, but still no chance to meet favorite object, careful study , seen too much, wider field of vision, so virtually anything you want to own but do not know, this is an important reason.
we encounter the university teachers Ling Jingcheng admit they are She complained: I can not work out how such a bad luck? others have embarked on a These days, She was not seen, so a little hesitant not know whether to go on the two exchanges boyfriend, a girlfriend fell in love with one of her, soon shifted to another target. Six months later, they have to She made a hi posted. Moreover, the bride's conditions are not worse than their own.
Ling Jing some flustered, her friends in distress to ask: first met. In particular, the current boyfriend and married someone else six months later, another chance encounter with her on one occasion. Ling Jing then be surprised to find that they actually transform a woman had been turned upside down house, with mature prudent man temperament, and then not her disdain for worldly Silly boy was. So Ling Jing dumbfounding.
more Jiabu Diao course, the more not had a boyfriend, Ling Jing was the more dressed up more beautiful, more hard work, but more so, more and more men to stay away. It almost made her fall into a vicious cycle of deteriorating.
seems, no rest of the people are the same, be left to each have their own reasons. But no matter what, for men and women left left nowadays, there is a minimum prerequisite, as they themselves put it: It is thought a number of self-consciousness and single people, they are completely different from the previous situation of a single person helpless, they more capable than the average person and a good attitude to fight for life, career opportunities and the success of their family loss, is trying to get compensation from the other side.
left men left women: a single woman really is a reason
problem. so, if not friends and family intimacy, full of curious people who rush to die inquiry is not good. However, whether you've never experienced the passion, or has gone through the sea, or to have to pick and not pick favorite people - - but your state is a single label, according to popular words: you may be left out.
they not only left, but the remaining challenges, but the rest of his pick their own . saying goes bit left women have said to us that, in fact, think carefully, can be calculated according to the proportion of people who should not have many friends, which friends have to be the opposite sex, the probability is one half, to age, character, education, etc. the probability of matching all aspects and small a lot, so the math, the probability is very small chance of winning, of course, if you encounter, and that is one hundred percent.
unfortunate women caught in a single vortex, in fact, there is nothing physical defects or mental retardation, on the contrary, most of them beautiful, talented, economic independence, and some even are fine woman. but was kept outside the gates in the marriage, why did it have they?
which economists have One explanation is that they said because the opportunity cost of entering the threshold of love too. modern society, a good woman has a good professional job opportunities, economic independence, not dependence on men, marriage, if you choose to give up things too much, or input costs too much, she would not want to. society offers opportunities for women's work and development of more single women's groups will be greater. But God is so stingy, you can not account for the benefit of the whole. single women stronger sense of professionalism, the more hope there is good feeling to get compensation, but in the case of high expectations, marriage has become more difficult.
In addition, the evolution of the concept of life, family values to their relaxed environment, should be in the past, especially the women, nearly 30 years of age are not married, people will certainly have her views, but it is free and open age, unmarried women much less social pressure, or even reduced to only a life choice of marriage one item.
, of course, in the strict sense of the single (not married life) phenomenon is very rare, and more are postponing their marriage. the reasons for late marriage and some other factors: First, education for a long time , from primary school to PhD, to stay in school a full 20 years, many opportunities are missed. Second, the impact of opening up, a major purpose of marriage is to solve problems, not married sex life is also very easy to obtain when Many busy people will not get married. Third, changes in social conditions, changing the relative costs and benefits of marriage, such as rising housing prices lead to rise in the cost of marriage, forced marriage postponement.
our investigation we have an outstanding experience: of qualifications is very high, appearance and taste, lucrative men left women who left, at least one half of the ideal partner for the absence of sighing, do nothing, and did not reach ;. But still, although the feeling unhappy and defeated its general characteristics, women who left were not completely Accordingly, said: We are in this circle, that too many people living state, their own intelligence, set up their own lives, are the beneficiaries of economic growth, but with more and faster rising expectations anxiety. in the areas of private life, their desire to get more emotional satisfaction, but they often can not afford the emotional desire to bring the crisis. Therefore, they are contradictory, is confused.
in the work of a foreign media company 26-year-old side-han, the only child of the family. The vivacity of the girl spoke very vividly: , and the boys did not feel any different, equally enjoy the affection of their parents, the same good living, the same good education, and lived a carefree youth. After graduation, get a fairly good job, do not make progress will not lag behind, although the life of constantly repeated, sometimes boring but full of joy, but suddenly found that so and so who talk about her boyfriend, and so and so who married so and so who have children, and so and so who call that night with a meal To introduce boys to you. reunions are not the first and second year graduate talk about beer and skittles, as if one had the other half are mysterious, even if a person is also known as just romance. The most terrible is that parents start Take your love affair as a top national policy around to beg someone to give you a blind date activities.
Head flashing light again, the confirmation honest, the one hundred percent a hundred percent of people will say the same words: 'You're asking for too much, right?' do 'I'm not entirely my responsibility boyfriend?' So 25 years is over, many girls can not help but fear, thought to himself: to begin to change from Lao Leba! self-confidence, such as early winter leaves, a piece fell and was blown away.
26-year-old is the energetic feel, a lot of things yourself busy, where youth have time to sigh perishable. Moreover, the modern beauty their beauty and cosmetic surgery and more advanced, the more women's youth line ever longer, women can be regarded as fully 'thirty-one flowers'! 25 years old with no boyfriend do not be surprised. do not choose. Fang Xian said she appreciated the man is this: open-minded, humorous, not petty. resting his head on their own, their own over that hurdle, the other do not care. about the future, because too many variables, not thought. Social Security with the business to buy their own insurance, should be able to deal with it? Anyway, now is the 'moon family ', since do not know how to. What is the biggest target? is married? marriage is the ultimate goal? think much more experienced, the Beijing heartless woman she has so muddy surge of enthusiasm hesitate: Now I am glad that they did not early marriage. I'm the kind who want to step, once the marriage is not divorce, and if early marriage was, I must now resume is 'divorced without baby'. it is I do not want to see . her discernment of the. especially it? home has room for a woman but, because of constraints of the social environment, in the ubiquitous influence, control your temper. love, so how to control? Sell semi-send.
I am kind, let the man who married vain worry we go. , but does not have to have a husband.
factors that I still want to get married, and if could not find the right? it has no single. fewer and fewer good men, not me, not normal, but the man is too unusual. Kham Tibetan areas to show, please leave for ten days, the results ran for two days, and come back look at the back of a hospital's actions. now become practical Hao show some. these two years she began to place more emphasis on making money. this thing. Marriage requires too much sacrifice, you have to invest a lot of things in the other body, other than there are in addition to money, energy, time and personal preferences, etc., so sometimes think, could also not be changed without changing it, at least for now, but also not a big change in force giving me the urge. is not there a Kaner, Kaner on the age? times, each of the years, her total number of years married 20 years. If we subtract 18 years of growth, 70 minus 20 minus 18, could see that she is at least 32 years of single . So, I think single women do not have a age limit, but just to say you are in this state. Of course, I say this not to encourage everyone to go single. If you have a good opportunity, must go to grasp, such as You said the best before the age of 30, married his own, or you are the best in the appropriate age to have children. In this way, your life may have more color. but not sure if these two areas is good, it should not worry, I think as long as a woman caring, elegant, rich in heart, even 80 years old she will graciously, or someone will love her, or have friends like her. Martin, director of the project is in the small end of a relationship just now, can hear that she has a newborn, if the joy of.
is often in an indescribable state of cold war, often because I do not know why, he would not talk to me, silent. think is incredible, first because he felt like he was deep, very taste, and finally break up the same as deep, too deep, very deep, very frightening. and this does not speak of the state can continue throughout the week or even longer. That year his parents in Guangzhou, the New Year, I went to his house, do not say a few words, he began to ignore me cold with a face. I do not know exactly where I offended him or said something wrong, my heart especially aggrieved, it is the Chinese New Year, ah, hey why do To give face to see it?

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